It Begins with You

THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES AND USA TODAY BESTSELLER
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The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.
Jillian Turecki’s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.
Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives:- Truth 1: It begins with you.- Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield.- Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.- Truth 4: You have to love yourself.- Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth. - Truth 6: You need to be your best self (even after the honeymoon).     - Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.    - Truth 8: No one is coming to save you.- Truth 9: You must make peace with your parents.
Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins with You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve. It's never too late to choose yourself.

Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian Turecki has helped thousands through her teaching and writing revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their relationships with others. Between Jillian’s podcast, “Jillian on Love,” her newsletter, “Love Weekly,” and her social media community, Jillian reaches millions of people who seek her actionable, compassionate, direct, and research-driven insight. As the founder of Jillian Turecki Coaching, Jillian has changed the lives of countless individuals and couples around the world through her transformative workshops, courses, and one-on-one coaching sessions.