A Womb of Her Own

Gender and body-based distinctions continue to be a defining component of women's identities, both in psychoanalytic treatment and in life. Although females have made progress in many areas, their status within the human community has remained unstable and subject to societal whim. A Womb of Her Own brings together a distinguished group of contributors to explore, from a psychoanalytic perspective, the ways in which women's sexual and reproductive capabilities, and their bodies, are regarded as societal and patriarchal property, not as the possession of individual women. It further examines how women have been viewed as the "other" and thus become the focus of mistreatment such as rape, sexual slavery, restriction of reproduction rights, and ongoing societal repression. Postmodern gender theories have greatly enhanced understanding of the fluidity of gender and freed women from repressive stereotypes, but attention has shifted prematurely from the power differential that continues to exist between men and women. Before the male/female binary is transcended, the limitations imposed upon women by the still prevailing patriarchal order must be addressed. To this end, A Womb of Her Own addresses issues such as the prevalence of rape culture and its historical roots; the relationship of the LGBT movement to feminism; current sexual practices such as sexting and tattooing and their meaning to women; reproductive issues including infertility; adoption; postpartum depression and the actual experience of birthing-all from the perspectives of women. The book also explores the cultural definitions of motherhood, and how such definitions set exacting standards both for the acceptable face of motherhood and for women generally. While women's unique anatomy and biology have historically contributed to their oppression in a patriarchal society, it is the exploration and illumination of these capabilities from their own perspective that will allow women to claim and control them as their own. Covering a broad, topical range of contemporary subjects, A Womb of Her Own will appeal to psychoanalysts, psychoanalytic psychotherapists, as well as scholars and students of gender and women's studies.

Ellen L.K. Toronto is in private practice in Ann Arbor, Michigan. She is co-editor of Psychoanalytic Reflections on a Gender-free Case: Into the Void (Routledge, 2005), the author of Family Entanglement (CreateSpace 2013) and writes a weekly parenting blog for PsychCentral. JoAnn Ponder, PhD is a psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in Austin, Texas. Kristin Davisson, PsyD is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Chicago. Maurine Kelber Kelly PhD, FIPA is a Training and Supervising Analyst with the Contemporary Freudian Society and served as adjunct faculty in the PsyD program at The George Washington University.

Introduction Ellen L. K. Toronto Section One: A Culture of Oppression Commentary on Section One Maurine Kelly Chapter One: Gender Inequality in a (Still) Binary World Ellen L. K. Toronto Chapter Two: Feminism: A Revolutionary Call about Female Sexuality Doris Silverman Chapter Three: "We're (Not) Pregnant": Gay Men and Women's Reproductive Rights Richard Ruth Response to Section One Marilyn Metzl Section Two: Women and Sexual Trauma Commentary on Section Two Kristin Davisson Chapter Four: Date Rape and the Demon-Lover Complex: The Devine, The Deviant, and the Diabolical in Male/Female Politics Susan Kavaler-Adler Chapter Five: Secondary Sexual Trauma of Women: Female Witnesses Kristin Davisson Chapter Six: Chasing Justice: By Stander Intervention and Restorative Justice in the Contexts of College Campuses and Psychoanalytic Institutes Katie Gentile Section Three: Women Defining Motherhood Commentary on Section Three JoAnn Ponder Chapter Seven: Childfree Women: Surviving the Pushback and Forming an Identity in the Internet Era Adi Avivi Chapter Eight: A Perfect Birth: The Birth Rights Movement and the Idealization of Birth Helena Vissing Chapter Nine: From Infertility and Empty Womb to Maternal Fulfillment: The Psychological Birth of the Adoptive Mother JoAnn Ponder Section Four: Mother as Therapist / Therapist as Mother Commentary on Section Four Ellen L. K. Toronto Chapter Ten: Too Soft, Too Warm, Too Maternal: What is Good Enough? Meredith Darcy Chapter Eleven: Get a Grip: How a Psychotherapist's Postpartum Depression Disrupted the Illusion of the Idealized Mother and Changed Forever What It Means to "Hold" Kristin Reale