What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work

What to Say When Nothing Seems to Work offers parents an effective, step-by-step guide to some of the most common struggles for kids aged 5-12.

Adele Lafrance, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, research scientist, and co-developer of Emotion-Focused Family Therapy. She offers workshops for the general public and mental health agencies worldwide. Ashley Miller, MD, is a child psychiatrist at BC Children's Hospital and a clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at the University of British Columbia where she is co-director of family therapy training for psychiatry residents.

Part I. 1. A New Path 2. The Road Map 3. Potential Roadblocks 4. Staying on Track Part II. 5. "I don't want to..." 6. "I miss..." 7. "You love my sister more..." 8. "This is the BEST!" 9. "My tummy hurts..." 10. "I'm not talking to you..." 11. "I'm so bad/stupid..." 12. "You just don't get it!" 13. "I can't decide..." 14. "Don't go to work!" 15. "I got a terrible mark..." 16: "I hate my life!" 17. POW! (Dealing with aggression) 18. "Don't make me go to Mom's/Dad's!" 19, The "Do-Over" 20. "You're too soft! & You're too hard!" 21. "Why are you talking to me like that?" Part III. 22. New Directions 23. Practical Resources 24. Recommended Readings