Sex When You Don't Feel Like It

This book guides readers step-by-step through how to discover their authentic longings while recognizing it can feel uncomfortable when they’re unaccustomed to deep, soul-nourishing conversations about sex. Readers will learn what desire needs to thrive and how to understand their unique erotic template.

Cyndi Darnell is a sex and relationships therapist, clinical sexologist, and leading authority on desire and libido. Originally from Melbourne Australia, she now maintains a global practice from New York City where she offers consultations and coaching worldwide helping people resolve erotic quandaries and transform fear into freedom.

Introduction Chapter 1: Everything We've Been Told about Sex Is Lies Chapter 2: Why Pleasure Matters Chapter 3: What is Desire? Chapter 4: Desire Myths Chapter 5: Different Kinds of Desire Chapter 6: Looking Forward By Looking Back Chapter 7: The Triangle of Satisfaction Chapter 8: The Body Speaks Chapter 9: Let's Get Physical Chapter 10: Taking Risks Chapter 11: The Erotic Imagination Chapter 12: Talking About Sex Like It Matters Chapter 13: Troubleshooting Bibliography Notes Index About the Author