Real Life

What if you could see around the corners of your life? Wouldn't it help to know what the most challenging days of your life would be like BEFORE they hit? There are certain days in life that stand out because they are among the toughest that you or someone you love will experience. Your quality of life and your experience on the journey through this world are a function of how you handle these days when they arrive. Will you be ready? Will you be strong? Will you survive and be better for it, or will you cave? In Real Life: Preparing for the 7 Most Challenging Days of Your Life, bestselling author and talk show host Dr. Phil McGraw is here to help you prepare to confront what he believes are the seven most common critical days that you or a loved one are likely to face. This book helps make it possible for you to be there for yourself or to be the calm in the middle of the storm for someone you love when any of these difficult days arrive.

Encountering these days can feel like hitting a brick wall. But while they will change your life, they do not have to ruin it. Dr. Phil's step-by-step plan for getting through the worst days is designed to help you feel prepared when it really matters -- in the midst of a crisis. Dr. Phil provides wisdom and resources that will guide you toward a solution that is right for you, showing you how to minimize disruption and maximize the recovery. This book is not just about giving you a crisis-mode plan. It will also show you how to change your life now, before you get into a crisis, so that you are not behind the power curve when any of the seven days hit. You will be able to be a leader to someone you love during their crisis because you will know what to do. Dr. Phil says there are no exceptions: with the right attitude and the right information, every challenging day can be turned into a valuable life experience.

Phillip C. McGraw, Ph.D.

Acknowledgments Introduction 1 Prep Talk 2 Attitude of Aproach 3 Stress
The Days Between the Peaks and the Valleys 4 Loss
The Day Your Heart Is Shattered 5 Fear
The Day You Realize You Have Lived Your Life as a Sellout 6 Adaptability Breakdown
The Day You Realize You Are in Way over Your Head 7 Health
The Day the Body Breaks Down 8 Mental Health
The Day the Mind Breaks Down 9 Addiction
The Day Addiction Takes Over 10 Existential Crisis
The Day You Have Lost Your Purpose and Have No Answer to the Question "Why?" 11 The Next Step Appendix A Appendix B Appendix C Notes Resource Guide