A Talent for Friendship

This lively, provocative text presents a new way to understand friendship. Professor John Terrell argues that the ability to make friends is an evolved human trait not unlike our ability to walk upright on two legs or our capacity for speech and complex abstract reasoning. Terrell charts how this trait has evolved by investigating two unique functions of the human brain: the ability to remake the outside world to suit our collective needs, and our capacity to escape into our own inner thoughts and imagine how things might and ought to be. The text is richly illustrated and written in an engaging style, and will appeal to students, scholars, and general readers interested in anthropology, evolutionary and cognitive science, and psychology more broadly.

John Edward Terrell, A.B., A.M., Ph.D. (Harvard) has long been recognized as one of the world's leading experts on the peopling of the Oceania and the remarkable biological, cultural, and linguistic diversity of modern Pacific Islanders. He is also a pioneer in the study of global human biogeography, baseline probability analysis, and the application of social network analysis in archaeology and anthropology. Since 1971 he has been the curator of Oceanic archaeology and ethnology at the Field Museum of Natural History in Chicago where he now holds the endowed Regenstein Curatorship of Pacific Anthropology established there in 2005. A strong voice for recognizing museums today as key players in global heritage management, he is currently working closely with Chicago's large Filipino-American community to foster the co-curation with them of Field Museum's outstanding early 20th century Philippines cultural collections. The author of more than 180 books, scientific papers, reports, and reviews, his book Prehistory in the Pacific Islands (Cambridge, 1986, paper 1988) is considered by many to be a classic study of human diversity in all its complexity. He has been called one of the best writers in anthropology today, someone with a keen and well-demonstrated commitment to writing that can be read for pleasure as well as content. He also has the distinction of being the resident kaitiaki (guardian) of the only 19th century Maori meeting house in the New World, Ruatepupuke II, now at the Field Museum but originally from Tokomaru Bay, Aotearoa (New Zealand) where it was first opened with great pomp and circumstance in 1881.

Part I. What Makes Us Human? 1. Being human 2. Baron von Pufendorf 3. Ghost theories 4. The secret lives of Lou, Laurence, and Leslie Part II. The Archaeology of Friendship 5. Suddenly all was chaos 6. A wimpy idea 7. In the footsteps of A. B. Lewis 8. Confronting the obvious 9. The archaeology of friendship 10. The sign of the sea turtle 11. Drawing conclusions Part III. Selfish Desires 12. Houston, we've had a problem 13. You can't get there from here 14. The wizard of Down House 15. The numbers game Part IV. The Social Baseline 16. Animal cooperation 17. The question of animal awareness 18. Babies and big brains 19. Mission impossible Part V. Social Being 20. Alone in a crowd 21. A state of mind 22. It's who you know 23. Bloodlust, fear, and other emotions Part VI. Principles To Live By 24. The lady or the tiger? 25. A kiss is just a kiss? 26. Friend or Facebook? 27. What was the Garden of Eden like? 28. The strength of weak ties 29. Meet me on the marae 30. Being in a family way Appendix Index